Ok, I think we can all agree that keeping Christ as the central focus for our kids is of the utmost importance in keeping them on the right track. The question is, in today's world with all the distractions, how is that accomplished? As parents, what is our role? Answer: It is a continual work in progress and our role as parents must be to create new ways to inspire them, create conversation at the dinner table ( in between baseball, cheerleading, etc..) and, most importantly I think, lead by example.
The starting point for anyone should be to make God the first thought of every day. Teens can easily accomplish this by having some kind of a reminder. Maybe a note beside their bed or on the bathroom mirror so they see it every morning and they can take whatever portion of time to thank God for giving them this day and all of their blessings. Some days may allow for more time than others but the main point is to give God that first part of the day. As parents, we can set the example by our own routines and not be afraid to let our kids see us in this role. Take time in the morning (every morning) to read the bible and prayer. I made this commitment a couple of years ago and know that is has made a huge impact in my walk with Christ. My kids see it and know where they will find me every morning. I think (or I hope) it is setting an example for them.
The key is keeping God first every day. As I said above, some days may allow for more time than others (especially for teens). It is important for them to realize that so they can actually stick to the plan and look forward to it every day. They will quickly realize that putting God first in their thoughts, prayers and/or readings every day is pleasing to Him and keeps us all in His word.
"Listen to my voice in the morning, LORD. Each morning I bring my requests to You and wait expectantly. "
Psalm 5:3 (NLT)
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